While some teens would never post a selfie on Facebook, others don’t seem to resist posting selfies on Facebook. Instagram at least a few times a day.
For parents, the whole phenomenon of selfies can be a little disconcerting. Why would you want to take 50 photos of yourself standing in a bathroom and then choose the one you think makes you look your best and post it on your profile so people can give you feedback? ?
Well, in some cases, it’s just harmless fun. But for other teenagers, selfies can be a much deeper problem.
Selfies and self-esteem
For some teenagers, self-esteem largely depends on the feedback they receive from their selfies. The more appreciations, hearts or positive comments they receive, the better they feel. .
If a teenager attracts negative attention or, worse, does not pay attention at all Self-esteem it can collapse. You can declare that you are not attractive and that you do not love her if you do not receive the answer you are waiting for.
Often, the desire to increase self-esteem becomes captivating. Teenagers become obsessed with taking attractive selfies in an effort to gain positive attention from others.
Adolescents with mental health problems They can present a particularly high risk of selfie obsession. It has been reported that some teenagers spend hours every day trying to take a perfect selfie, which could help earn people’s praise on social media.
Unfortunately, the search for the perfect selfie can become so severe that it interferes with a teenager’s social life and upbringing.
Selfies and the reputation of a teenager
Although most teenagers are unlikely to develop an obsession with selfies, there are other dangers. If teens aren’t paying attention to the types of images they share, a selfie could ruin their reputation.
Many teenagers share little-dressed photos to see around the world. Others hope that the selfies they share will remain private if they are sent to only one or two people. They don’t realize that selfies can be easily shared with the world once they are in cyberspace.
A teenager who shares a partially nude photo with her boyfriend, for example, may be surprised to learn that she shared it with her friends. Or worse, if they break up, the photo could be posted on social media in an act of revenge.
The physical dangers of selfies
A common trend among teenagers is to take selfies that include action photos in the background. Teenagers take pictures in front of buildings burning while under waterfalls or performing various stunts. Unfortunately, some teenagers died trying to take risky selfies, which they thought would make them look good.
Another danger of taking selfies is that many teenagers unknowingly reveal their location. They don’t realize that the street sign behind them or their house in the background can make it easier for a predator to find its location.
Why you should talk to your teen about selfies
Selfies can be a healthy way for teens to express themselves. However, teenagers need guidance on what is appropriate and what is not. Help your teen understand how selfies can get messy.
Control the amount and content of your teen’s selfies. Although there aren’t a set number of selfies to indicate that your teen may have a problem, you need to make sure that your teen’s photo escapades don’t interfere with real life. If your teen is wasting time with friends or can’t do housework because she’s busy posting selfies on Instagram, it could indicate a problem.
Have frequent conversations with your teen about the dangers of selfies. Ask questions about social media and what your teenager thinks about selfies.
Educate your teen about how future employers or college admissions offices might view selfies. It’s important for your teen to recognize that something that may seem like a harmless joke now could turn into a serious problem later.